Laser Focused: Leaving Shoulds Behind

Want a few simple ways to start AND finish something you’ve been after but haven’t yet accomplished? Give this advice a go, and build from there.

The secret to superhero-level focus: Laser-beam eyes. Also: Know your limits. If you don’t think you have limits, or you haven’t “found” yours yet (and you’re over 19 years old), ʏᴏᴜ ꜱʜᴏᴜʟᴅ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴀʟʀᴇᴀᴅʏ ᴘᴜʙʟɪꜱʜᴇᴅ ᴀ ʙᴏᴏᴋ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛᴀᴜɢʜᴛ ᴀʟʟ ᴏꜰ ᴜꜱ ʏᴏᴜʀ ꜱᴇᴄʀᴇᴛꜱ. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

A few quick tips — because it’s Monday and no one really wants to read:
✅ Brace yourself to ignore ???????????????? ???????? ????????????????????????. lotsofthings.
✅ Don’t “should” yourself ????????????. There’s no value in it.
✅ That thing you’re focusing on? See it through. Save your ????iness for other things (like me with my 19 half-done paintings!). Name what completion would look like, even if it doesn’t seem complete to others, or isn’t the “true” finish, and hold yourself to it. You can always extend this out as you go.

There’s not a finish line for everything, but to work your way up to being able to focus on more “abstract” things, practice one thing at a time, build some habits and processes to help you get there (consistent way of reminding yourself, accountability measures, honest self check-ins), and before you know it, your previously elusive pipedream is now just a thing you do without so much thought required.

Need some help defining what a “for now” finish line might look like for you in ONE area? Book a consult with us here. Get a few bursts of motivation by reading through our Instagram posts, but remember, pick one thing you can focus on, and get after it.

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